We are big hearted people as we love everyone- our family, our friends, our pets, our neighbors, our colleagues, our jobs , our homes..... list is never ending. But when it comes to loving our own selves, we become skeptical, we become our own biggest critics. There can be so many things which we may not like about ourselves. Some of us don't like their names, some have problem with their looks.
The most important thing which should matter most to us is totally ignored i.e. our own self. It is ignored on both levels- physical as well as emotional. In every matter we put our self on the back seat. We not only overlook it but also lambast it with all sorts of harsh things that we can think of. We bruise our souls by self criticizing.
As a result we have inferiority complex. In the process we also allow others, knowingly or unknowingly, to run over us and never care for our feelings. We allow them as we do that to ourselves.
What should actually the situation be? We should love our own selves. We are unique in every manner. one of a kind. So why hate the single most thing that ventures on this very earth? Instead we should be proud of our self. Nobody else in the world is like me. Mere jaisa koi nahi hai. When this is the situation then why worry?... Only love should be there for your own. Focus on all the good things that ....I am one of a kind and nobody else in this whole world is like me...
Stop lamenting about what you don't have. Emphasize on your assets. cherish your merits. Fall in love with you. Love thyself
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