What will the people say?

 This is the phrase which we have said or heard most of our lives. Our lives are governed by these five words ' what will the people say'. Actually who are these people who influence our lives so much. These are the one who live in and around our homes, offices, schools, colleges… or even passer byes. They may be or not may be related to us. In many cases they may not even know us properly. But it is their sole right to criticise all without knowing the exact situation. They simply pass the judgements. That’s all. And we take them seriously.
Most of the times we see that these judgements adversely affect us. We may want to do something or we can say anything… first thing that would come to our minds what will others say to this. How will the people react, do or say to this. Before our own approval we need others' nod. Well it is not so that we should not think about others . We should . But not at the cost of our mental peace. We should consider others opinions. When it concerns them, not when we are talking about our own individual choices.
What happens is that in giving importance to others we forget the most important person about whom all the thing is about. Most of the times it is about us own self. In keeping others happy and satisfied we keep on hurting ourselves . In pleasing others we neglect our own feelings, our own likes or dislikes. This actually harms our minds and thoughts. Only one life is given to us and that too we spend in pleasing others. When will we live for our own selves.
Keep in mind we are our own worlds. We may keep in view our loved ones or family or in that matter our friends but that too not at the cost of our own happiness. Because if we are happy and satisfied souls we will be able to make others also happy. Make this world a better place by being happy without caring about what the people will say….

life is beautiful

Life is beautiful as long as we are living. It is alive even with our struggles and all the problems that we face in our lives. All the happiness and good things are of use when we are alive. These exist when we exist. all the success , all the failures are fruitful when we live. All of us have been living lives that are full of all sorts of events.. good, bad, hurtful, joyous.. all sorts. We may experience fullness of life and sometimes it may seem all empty, useless. What to do? What can be done? 

When things don't go our way it does not look beautiful at all. At least for that moment. So how and why do we say 'life is beautiful'. Well at least we are alive.. Isn't that a thing to be happy about? We can always take a u-turn even if nothing is working right. As long as we are breathing there is always a hope to do better. We need to look for the options to make the change. We have to steer our lives out of the storm, always. Mind it, all of us are capable of doing so. The matter of concern is that we never try. 

Look for the ways you can redirect your life. Put back you life on rails. Surely it is not easy but why not give it a shot. Trying is always better than doing nothing at all. It is possible that there might not be many choices to make, but take whatever it is. Make it happen. What is the worst case scenario? You may not succeed at the beginning. Keep on working on the failures. Aim towards achieving the success. With determination and hard work things are going to turn your way. 

Never forget what you already have. Look for the positive side of every incident. Keep in mind that there is always a silver lining to the dark clouds. Things never remain the same. Change is bound to happen. If good days are no more there, the dark phase is also going to be over sooner or later. Count your blessings. Be thankful that its not over yet. Always remember that if it is not a happy ending it is not an end.. Picture abhi baaki hai mere dost...

To begin with, start with yourself. Appreciate your own efforts. Be in peace with yourself. If there are changes to be brought, change your attitude first. Cultivate positive thoughts. Rediscover yourself. Pursue a hobby, preferably art or singing or playing an instrument. You are never too old for these things. There is always a new beginning. Never hesitate to start afresh.

So get up. Shake it off. Shun all the negative thoughts. Generate new ideas.

And never forget.....

 LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL