Many a times it happens in our lives that
we get stuck with a person or experience which happened sometime back. They
have a long term impact on our lives. Our present gets influenced by decisions
taken in the past. We learn lessons
and change our behaviour accordingly. Sometimes this strategy proves to be good.
Problem arises when we drag our past into our future. It is good to remain
cautious but it may prevent us from taking a leap of faith.
Any disappointment of past must not find
its way into the future. Instead of being afraid and be negatively influenced
by bad experiences, we should learn to remove the pot holes. We should be able
to see clearly after the storm is over and build new and stronger shelters. So,
instead of being afraid to go out in a thunder storm we should be able to face
them with courage and brevity.
After the disaster in past we must plan
well and work harder. Then there would be no chance of failure. Our failures
should be stepping stones and not the hindrances towards success. The bad experiences
don’t matter. What actually matters is how long we stick to them, how long we
rely on them in order to take decisions. Our excessive cautiousness will have
an impact on every move which is not good for our decision making power. We
should have a constructive attitude towards life and everything related with
it. We can make a choice about what we want to become and what to do next. They
say ' what we think, we become'.
We have no control on the circumstances
whatsoever. But what is in hands is our response to such situations, whether we
panic or think of a way out of problem. It is our choice. For this we need to
listen to our instinct and trust it too. It may seem absurd at times but we
need to trust.
So let’s leave our fears and apprehensions
behind and move ahead.
