When Aristotle said "man is a social animal" he meant that we humans can survive only when we are surrounded by people who help us, support us. In other words it can be said that we need a support system to grow and to survive. We cannot live on our own. Our total existence right from the birth to death we need people for support. A lone fish has no life at all.
We depend on others socially, financially, economically and above all emotionally. For that purpose we need to maintain our relation with our family and friends and relatives and colleagues and neighbor and all the other people who we come across during our lifetime. Each relation can have a different set off emotions attached to it .
So it can be said that each relation demands a separate set of rules, a separate kind of treatment. This is because each one of our relation has a distinct personality and its own demands from time to time. Such need are to be catered timely and without fail.any delay may cost a good relation. Relations are like plants which need care and love from time to time. Just as a plant would die without sufficient water, oxygen and sunlight, relations would also die if we don't care about them or pay attention to them or love them.
One more thing... giving space in any relationship is all the more necessary for the survival of any relationship. It is one of the key ingredients of any fast relationship. Be it husband wife relation or friends or parents or siblings..any relation.. they need some space to breathe and grow. Every relation must have freedom. Our relations should not be burdened by our love and care and over protection.
Every thing in our lives need to be prioritize accordingly . We can nurture them or end them if we do not compartmentalize them as per their needs. So if we want those relations to stay in our lives then we need to work on them and give more attention to them and divide our time accordingly. And if we don't want certain people to be their we just need to ignore them and they will be out in no time.
All the more important thing in any relationship is that it works both ways. Single side can never be held responsible for its success. One sided efforts can not keep it alive. Both sides are equally responsible for it. One way traffic of bonding cannot keep it together.
So ... healthy relationship needs a right attitude, right effort, and that too with right person or persons. This should be our relationship goal..................
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