The Grey Shade

                                               

                                        You know what, it is quite interesting that we look for either an all good person or an all bad person. In their point of view people have either good qualities or bad qualities. There is nothing in between these two extremes. But actually, people do not come in black or white nature... they come in GREY.....

                                           No one is 100% good or 100% bad.  Everyone has his own share of flaws and strengths. We do not say that a person whom we label as 'good' will not have a single imperfection, and the person whom we call a 'bad' one, does not guarantee that he has only faults and not a single positive character.

                                          In fact, the thing is that no one can be completely good or completely bad. People come as a combination of both - good as well as bad. The ratio of these traits can differ from person to person. Good qualities are always accompanied by the bad ones. So we cannot say that a particular person is good or bad as we may be seeing one side of the coin, we may be seeing one trait of his personality. We see in them what we want to see, and what they really are. We perceive others from our point of view.

                                      Everyone comes with all the shades of black and white. All of us have grey personalities. We will see good or bad in them as we want to see. So when we hear someone saying that they seldom meet good persons these days it means they are looking at only one side of that person and they are totally ignoring his other aspects. They may be overlooking their positive features. So when we say that people come as a whole package, we need to look at their other side as well. We need to stop seeing people from our own pointers. As they can be good or bad according to the framework of our thoughts. We don't judge people as what they actually are. As a matter of fact we look at them from our angles. 

                                       We must agree that no one comes with a single set of attributes, rather, he is gifted with all sorts of qualities and deformities. People have all shades of grey in their personalities. As Lisa Ling says "There is so much grey to every story- nothing is so black and white."