It is always said that change is not the enemy but a silent teacher. It is one of the major constants in our lives. Whether we accept it or not, welcome it or resist it, it exists, it continues to unfold before us, Things change, situations change. and so do the people. It happens not because life is unstable but because life is always on the move.
Things tend to change, sometimes quietly, sometimes suddenly. one may feel that everything that is going in life [n a smooth manner and in a jiffy, things take a sudden turn, that change can be for bettre or for worse, only time will tell. Change may not always be comfortable, but one thing is sure that it is meaningful. the things which seem to be permanent part of life often turn slowly into memories. Time always moves ahead and so do people and things associated with them. Things, when they change, may bring clarity to the matters.
Situations are circumstances or conditions, as we may find ourselves in at any given time. they are influenced by so many factors such as our environment, our choices, our responsibilities, our health preferences or even our relationships etc. Sometimes time is also a determiner of changes that happen around us. It is not who we are or what we are but where we are at a particular point of time.
The alterations in the situations maybe seen or sometimes they may be invisible. What may look like everlasting today, can or will fade away tomorrow. It can transform into something else. And actually, when we comprehend that that everything is short lived and evolving, we stop being defined by them. A bad moment does not define the whole scenario. The change in situations teaches us patience, build resilience, bring up confidence, open our perspectives. We begin to realize that the situation is the not the whole story, It is only a small part of the big picture. They make us or break us. better to use this change in a better way, to grow stronger and wiser version of ourselves.
And, when other things are changing, how can people fall behind? People often grow, evolve, move to different directions. It is not always necessary that people move apart only because of some conflict or contradiction. It may be because of education, job, transfer, or even in search of better opportunities. In fact, we often expect people to remain the same, behave in the similar manner, have same outlook forever, that is, we want to see them as we met them the first day. but in reality, people do change, rather they evolve as they grow in life and experience a lot of things. sometimes they closer, sometimes they move apart, sometime become kinder. Whatever the change may be, but this is for real that they outgrow their old versions of themselves.
Truth is that the world around us is ever-changing. it is transforming every day. everything... values, culture, technology... everything keeps shifting. The things that seem impossible become common. Such changes bring development, progress and new beginnings. If we hold to older versions, it will result only in irritation and anger and frustration.
Instead of opposing or fearing the change, go along with it. Life becomes easy when go with the flow and start trusting the process. They changes build us slowly and strengthen our foundation of life. we must choose to see change as life lessons that allows us to move through our lives with courage and clarity.....
